Why She Talks So Much (And Why You Need to Listen)

Growing up, my dad hated when my mom was on the phone.

She’d be chatting away, and he’d sit there—fuming.

Sighing.
Rolling his eyes.
Muttering under his breath.

Eventually, he’d snap— “Why do you waste time with this pointless chatter?”

At the time, I thought he was right. I thought women just talked too much.

But now I know better.

He wasn’t seeing what was really happening.

She wasn’t just talking to talk.

She was processing her emotions.
She was releasing stress.
She was recharging.

And every time he dismissed her, he was unknowingly doing what most men do in their own relationships:

Failing to speak Womenese.

And if you’re doing this, it’s slowly killing the attraction in your relationship.

The Silent Attraction Killer

It starts small.

• She shares something, and you half-listen.

• She vents about her day, and you nod, barely paying attention.

• She brings up the same thing again, and you think, Didn’t we already talk about this?

What you don’t realize is that when a woman doesn’t feel heard, she starts disconnecting.

At first, she just seems a little distant.
Then, she stops sharing certain things.
Then, she doesn’t look at you the same way.

Before you know it, the warmth is gone.
The playfulness fades.
The intimacy dies.

You might think, She just has a low sex drive.

But in her mind? She doesn’t feel connected to you—so her body shuts down sexually.

She doesn’t want you like before.
She doesn’t crave your touch.
She starts pulling away, and you feel that frustration creeping in, wondering, What changed?

This is how relationships become sexless.

Not because she stopped wanting sex—
But because she stopped feeling emotionally safe with you.

Womenese: The Language That Keeps Her Drawn to You

Men and women handle stress differently.

Men go silent, retreat into their cave, and think things through alone.

Women, on the other hand, talk to process emotions.

This is Womenese—the language of emotional connection.

When she’s venting, she’s not looking for a solution.

She’s looking to be felt. She’s saying:

“Connect with me.”
“Hear me.”
“Make me feel safe.”

And when you roll your eyes, give half-hearted responses, or act distracted?

She hears: “I don’t care about your emotions.”

That’s when she starts pulling away.

Think of womenese like Japanese—it makes no sense at first. The words, tone, and nuance feel like a puzzle. But once you understand the culture and context, everything clicks. You’re not broken you’re just speaking a different language..

The Fix: How to Keep Her Emotionally & Sexually Drawn to You?

Next time she’s talking to you:

✅ Put your phone down—even for 30 seconds.
✅ Make eye contact—show her she has your attention.
✅ Use simple connection phrases:
👉 “I hear you.”
👉 “That sounds like a lot. How do you feel about it?”
👉 “Tell me more.”

It’s that simple.

When a woman feels heard, she feels connected.
When she feels connected, she feels safe.
And when she feels safe, she desires you.

Most men ignore Womenese, dismiss her emotions, and wonder why their sex life has died.

But the men who get this?

They never have to ask for intimacy—because their woman naturally wants them.

Learn Womenese Before It’s Too Late

In The Lover with a Strong Spine mini-course, I’ll teach you exactly how to speak Womenese—so you can avoid conflict and a sexless relationship.

It’s dropping in the next couple of weeks. Be ready.

The choice is yours.

Stay loving,

Mohammed