Most Men Screw Up Valentine’s Day

Hello King,

Valentine's Day is around the corner, and let’s be real—most men mess it up.

You’re busy. Work is piling up, bills are due, and now your woman is nagging you about making plans. You don’t know what she wants, and honestly, you don’t even have the energy to care. Sound familiar?

But here’s the part you don’t realize:

Neglecting this day isn’t just another mistake—it’s slow poison to your relationship.

When your woman feels unseen, unappreciated, and emotionally neglected, resentment starts to build. She won’t tell you outright, but she’ll withdraw. Her touch will feel colder, her kisses will be half-hearted, and sex will become just another chore—if it happens at all.

Eventually, her subconscious registers you and the relationship as boring—not a source of passion and excitement.

And you? You’ll feel it too. The tension, the lack of warmth, the quiet frustration of a man who doesn’t understand why his woman isn’t as soft, loving, or eager as she used to be.

But here’s the truth:

This day isn’t just about her. It’s about YOU.

YOUR PLEASURE.

It’s about rekindling your fire, reigniting your masculine edge, and shifting back into your lover mode. If you do this right, this day could change the entire course of your relationship and manhood.

When you spend a full day embodying your lover, magic happens. It rebirths you. She becomes the delicious meal your masculine soul has been starving for. She inspires you, fuels you. You wake up the next morning ready to conquer the world just so you can create more days like this.

So instead of dreading Valentine’s Day, flip the script. Plan it for YOU. 

Make it the kind of night where you feel like a king taking his mistress to bed. The kind of night where you unleash your primal sexual energy and feel like the man you were meant to be instead of jerking off alone like a teenager.

And here’s the kicker:

When she’s in a good mood, her brain floods with oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin. These chemicals make her softer, more affectionate, and deeply connected to you.

When your woman is happy, she gives freely—her body, her energy, her admiration. She will look at you like you’re the only man in the world. And the best part? That glow lasts for days.

Her subconscious will replay the night over and over, keeping her in a state of desire, appreciation, and love for you.

When you do this right, planning a date from your lover archetype will be your new hobby.

Valentine's day is next week and I wanted to back you up with a plan to get a taste how mind-blowing your intimacy and sex could be.

I tested this exact formula for my girlfriend’s birthday last night, and here’s how you can copy it step by step.

The Lover's Game Plan for Valentine's Day

First things first, ask her to be your valentine's, I know it's silly but girl's love it and it will set her in the mood right away, she'll be recceptive and waiting for you to seduce her.

1. Start the morning right:

Wake up next to her and spend 10-15 minutes just holding her. No rush, no agenda, no sexual touches, just being present. Look her in the eyes and tell her, "I love you, and I’m so grateful you’re my woman."

2. Go ahead about your day:

Go ahead about your day, handle the logistics and make sure you're in a good head space.

In my case, I went ahead about my day, finished writing content and had juicy workout. The workout will flow your blood and it will help with boners at night.

While you're about your day, make sure to shoot her a message, tell her: I can't wait till we go out tonight, I've been craving you all day

After that I bought her a flower bouquet and wrote a note with my own handwriting - no need to be Shakespeare but the note will add a peronal touch - and women love that SHIT.

Then I made a final stop and bought something sexy for the bedroom, I got her new panties and a blindfold. (there's a store called Huenkemuller which sells sexy stuff and not too much overboard, so you can start there if you're not confident about that yet)

3. Give her a damn show (pre game seduction)

Seduction is nothing but to display your masculine competence.

While getting ready to go out, I gave her a sexy show and made her watch, I was walking shirtless around the house, using the razor on my beard, and polishing my leather shoes.

These things make her weak in the knee. (here I was displaying my masculine competencies such as muscles, beard, shoes)

While walking around throw some kisses and spanks.

Now you're done and she's ready.

then grab her, kiss her again, and tell her: let's go baby.

4. Lead the date like a man:

This is the time you lead her phsyically.

On your way to the restaurant, walk for awhile to get some fresh air, hold her hands, put her hands on her lower back and guide her through the crowd.

Let her feel your masculine presence keeping her safe & desired. All of that to convey to her physical safety.

Now the planning is done, and physical safety is established, it's time for intimacy and some emotional seduction.

(In another letter, I'll tell you more about the differencce between intimacy and seduction so you can master relationships) but for now that's a decent start.

5. Deepen the intimacy at dinner: Emotional Seduction

We sat at the restaurant for like an hour, it's your duty as a man to lead the conversation and open topics that lead to intimacy — I have a template for different topics for different mood in the lover with a strong spine mini program.

But mainly talk to her about herself, what do you like about her, why you're content she's your woman — all while face fucking her. (I promise you there'll be no need to use lube from how wet she's gonna be)

6. Turn the heat up: Sexual Seduction

Then when it was time for dessert, I switched to my pornstar seduction.

You're gonna be my dessert tonight, baby, I said and Her pupils dilated instantly. The anticipation was ON. (she's already too wet for me)

7. End the night like a King:

Then we stayed the night at a hotel suite, let the night unfold in pure, unfiltered passion—sex so good it would make porn stars take notes.

The way she melted in my hands, the way her body responded to my touch, this was the night we both needed.

I'll cut it here for now and later on we can talk about "how to f*ck her like a pornstar".

For now, focus on emotional connection, physical safety, and sexual seduction. Master these in everyday mundane moments. This is what I teach in Lover with a Strong Spine—along with 7-day templates like this.

Want early access to the full program and templates?

For now, copy exactly what I did for my girl’s birthday and make this Valentine’s Day legendary.

Lucky you—it’s a weekend, so you can keep this energy going for days.

Stay loving, Kings
Mohammed