Is your woman still attracted to you?

What is Polarity?

Polarity is the invisible force that makes sexual attraction undeniable. It’s why some relationships feel magnetic while others feel lifeless.

Think of it like:

• Magnets → Opposite poles attract, but when the charge is the same, they push apart. If you become too much like her (passive, hesitant, overly emotional), you repel instead of attract.

• Electricity → Masculine energy is the current (force), feminine energy is the voltage drop (receptivity). No charge? No spark.

• Tango → The man leads with strength and confidence, the woman follows with fluidity and trust. If both try to lead, they trip. If neither leads, they just stand there.

When polarity is strong, there’s desire, excitement, and sexual tension. When it’s weak, you feel more like roommates than lovers.

Signs You’ve Lost Polarity in Your Relationship

She stops initiating affection.

She treats you more like a friend than a lover.

She critiques you more than she compliments you.

Sex feels obligatory, mechanical, or non-existent.

She’s more annoyed by you than excited to see you.

She’s more engaged in her phone, work, or friends than in you.

When this happens, most men make the mistake of:

Begging → “Do you even love me anymore?”

Complaining → “Why don’t you ever kiss me first?”

Over-explaining → “I do everything for you. Why are you like this?”

Transactional Nice Guy Moves → Doing the dishes, hoping it’ll lead to sex (but it depolarizes her even more).

Attraction isn’t a reward system. If you act like a nice employee expecting a promotion, she’ll start treating you like one.

The real answer? You shift first, and she follows.

How to Restore Polarity

Polarity isn’t about forcing her to be more feminine. It’s about you stepping deeper into your masculine energy—so she can naturally soften into her feminine.

1. Emotional Leadership → Stop seeking her validation. Lead with certainty.

Weak Polarity:

• Always asking, “What do you wanna do tonight?” → Getting “I don’t know” every time.

• Seeking her approval before making decisions.

• Letting her emotions dictate your mood.

Strong Polarity:

• “We’re trying this new Italian place tonight—7 PM. Dress up.” (She loves that.)

• You set a plan. If she wants to adjust, she will. But you lead first.

• When she’s overwhelmed and venting, instead of fixing it, you hold her close, look her in the eyes, and say, “I got you.”

Leadership = Security.

When a woman doesn’t feel led, she starts leading. And when she’s leading, she can’t relax into her feminine. If she can’t relax… intimacy suffers.

2. Grounded Presence → When she’s emotional, don’t react. Hold your frame.

Weak Polarity:

• She’s upset → You start apologizing for things you didn’t do.

• She tests you with small jabs → You get defensive.

• She’s frustrated → You either avoid her or try to fix it immediately.

Strong Polarity:

• She’s emotional? You stay still, listen, and don’t take it personally.

• She tests you? You smirk, pull her in, and say, “You’re cute when you’re feisty.” (Instead of arguing.)

• She’s overwhelmed? You hold her tight, slow your breathing, and let her feel your calm presence.

Women don’t trust men who crumble under pressure. If you can’t handle her emotions, how can she trust you with life’s bigger challenges?

When she trusts you emotionally, something else opens up…Can you guess what it is?

3. Sexual Tension → Stop being overly logical. Flirt, tease, and create an energetic charge.

Weak Polarity:

• You kiss her the same way every time.

• You touch her only when you want sex.

• You treat physical intimacy like a checklist, not an experience.

Strong Polarity:

• You pull her hair slightly when you kiss her instead of a routine peck.

• You whisper something playful in her ear while walking past her.

• You make eye contact and smirk before saying a word.

• You walk topless around the house.

• You spank her throughout the day.

Attraction isn’t built in the bedroom—it’s built in the moments leading up to it. If you’re waiting until night time to create connection, you’re already too late.

Stay polarizing,

Mohammed